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MAYA'S ADOPTION JOURNEY

WELCOME TO MY JOURNEY TO BRING MY DAUGHTER, MAYA GRACE HOME FROM GUATEMALA. DURING THIS JOURNEY I HAVE STUMBLED OVER MANY MOUNTAINS ONLY TO BUILD MY FAITH. THIS HAS BEEN ONE OF THE HARDEST JOURNEY'S OF MY LIFE AND IT HAS THE GREATEST PRIZE AT THE END. I CAN'T WAIT FOR THEM TO PLACE MY DAUGHTER IN MY ARMS FOREVER. MY DREAMS WILL THEN BE REALITY!!!

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Friday, February 02, 2007

NASTY PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD


WHY DOES SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO BE SO NASTY AND SUCH LIARS!!! I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY ON THIS POST. I JUST NEED TO VENT. I FOUND OUT TODAY THAT SOMEONE IN GUATEMALA IS HAS BEEN SITTING ON MY CASE FOR 6 WEEKS. MY WONDERFUL AGENCY SAID THAT SHE FOUND OUT TODAY I SHOULD HAVE GONE INTO PGN 6 WEEKS AGO. MY FILE WAS READY TO BE SUBMITTED TO PGN ON DEC. 14TH 2006. YEP, THAT MEANS THAT I COULD HAVE POSSIBLY BEEN GETTING OUT IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!! I ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT THIS GUATEMALAN PERSON WAS DOING THIS BUT NOW THAT I HAVE PROOF I AM SOOOOO MAD. THIS PERSON IS ALSO SPREADING NASTY RUMORS ABOUT ME. I REALLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS. I HAVE SO MANY FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS RIGHT NOW. I HOPE THAT THIS PERSON DOESN'T HURT MAYA IN ANYWAY BECAUSE OF ME. HOW COULD SOMEONE SAY THAT THEY ARE A "CHRISTIAN" AND DO WHAT THEY ARE DOING? THANKS FOR LETTING ME VENT!!! MY AGENCY HOPES THAT THE FILE WILL BE PICKED UP MONDAY MORNING AND SUBMITTED ON TUESDAY.

posted by Ginger--Maya's mommy @ 1:01 PM  

18 Comments:

  • At 1:16 PM, Blogger Calico Sky said…

    Oh Ginger, I am so very very sad for you and Maya. I can't believe it. Sadly sometimes people hide behind religion, sad, sad, sad.
    I am thinking about you and sending lots of big prayers and hugs to my sweet friend and Maya. Thinking of you lots and lots. K.

     

  • At 2:40 PM, Blogger Ellie said…

    YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING... I would hate to be that person when you get to Guatemala!!!

    So as I see it... Your Agency is at fault here too... They should have kept you abreast of the situation, and if they weren't getting any response from their people in Guatemala, they should have taken further action.

    AS FOR HERE FAITH... Put it this way, PEOPLE GET WHAT YOU REAP... She will be the one that has to answer at the end... Not you... So, vent all you want, then take a step back, recompose, and continue from there... Just remember, that that little pot of GOLD is waiting for you at the end of the Rainbow!!!

    HUGS

     

  • At 2:45 PM, Blogger Wendy said…

    I hate hypocrites! They are the lowest of the low. To hide behind faith and religion and then be evil and nasty is the worst thing anyone could do. God is on your side. Maya will be home soon and this will be just another distant memory.

    Hugs!!!

     

  • At 2:46 PM, Blogger Corey said…

    Gee.. Your agency must deal with my old attornies!!! VENT AWAY!Trust me when I say I feel your pain... Your sweet Maya will be home with you soon...
    I have now been through both a succesful and failed Guatemalan adoption... Most of the time our instincts with OUR children is right... Just remember... It is a fact that we have feelings, but our feelings are not fact...

     

  • At 3:28 PM, Blogger Lori and Robby said…

    OH MY GOODNESS!!!!! That is awful. Vent away -- I know I would be.

     

  • At 3:31 PM, Blogger Betsy said…

    What?! Someone saying nasty things about you? Not good at all. Assbyte! I can totally appreciate why you would be FURIOUS!

    What is going to be done to get your file into PGN?

    I am sorry this has been such a painful process.

     

  • At 3:59 PM, Blogger Natalie said…

    Ginger, I am so sorry you are going through this. My prayers will continue to be with you and Maya...and also for the people in Guatemala that their hearts may be softened and you will be submitted to PGN ASAP!

     

  • At 5:07 PM, Blogger Andrea said…

    I'm so sorry. I will continue to pray for your case- it needs to be in PGN NOW!!

     

  • At 6:14 PM, Blogger Steph said…

    Ginger, I am so sorry. I know the person you are referring to and I am surprised - and not surprised all rolled into one. That person is hooked up with my attorney which should give anyone pause as to their moral compass.

    I know you don't want to hear this (don't yell at me! LOL!) but you must trust that God's hand is still controlling this (despite how it may look). He is working ALL things to the good of His kingdom and to the good of those who love Him. He will work this to His good - I promise you.

    When you are being persecuted with lies, remember the passage "Be still and know that I am God." He is the ultimate dispenser of justice - and ALL things of darkness will be brought to light. Keep praying (and we all will too) and that baby will come home - He will take care of the rest. (((HUGS)))))

     

  • At 6:40 PM, Blogger Mary said…

    I can't believe you have to deal with this crap! Ginger, vent away. You have every right to. I'll be keeping the two of you in my prayers.

    Mary

     

  • At 7:11 PM, Blogger Alleen said…

    this is just disgusting. I'm so sad that you lost 6 weeks because of this person.

     

  • At 7:34 PM, Blogger Crystal said…

    GInger I am so so so sorry --I know nothing I say can help at all and I feel your pain --I am so sorry this is happening!!! I am going to tell you the same thing Steph did honey he is with you and he can fix this --I am going to pray for your favor with this person in Guatemala--There is a verse that says--I think-- don't quote me-- because I am not sure but I think it is --if you walk in mercy and truth --you will have his favor --ooh Ginger I will have to look it up and get back to you on this but I KNOW it talks about mercy and truth--and finding favor--I will look it up and get back to you--sweetie hang in there I am so sorry you are going thru this with your agency we are here for you

     

  • At 8:29 PM, Blogger Kerry said…

    I'm so sorry. I wish people would just grow up sometimes. They've already hurt Maya with the lack of attention they've showed your case. Hang in there. This will all be over soon. Hugs and prayers coming your way.

     

  • At 6:55 PM, Blogger bodegalee said…

    Oh Ginger.. I'm gonna send you that dart gun!! OK noone heard that... not a violent person.. but this sucks big rocks and I'm soooo pissed for you.. Sorry my language seems to be degrading rapidly and we havent even got a dossier together- I suspect I'm in trouble on that front!! perhaps our function is NOT to adopt but to go to Guatemala and wreak havoc on some folks' lives.. Oh how I wish I could.. of course cant chance getting thrown into a Guatemalan jail!! This blog is private right Ginger :) ??? I'm absolutely positively livid for you.... i.e. STEAM coming out the ears.. and dont blame you one iota for being ticked.

    I truly wouldnt worry... As much as these folks play games.. and I HOPE and pray I'm not ignorant here, but I just cant begin to fathom that they would in anyway place blame with the babies.. fault them... I have to think that Maya is just fine and this is a mind trip. Prior to Barrios being in PGN (and again this may be my ignorance ) but my understanding is that there was much more bribery, financial coercian getting things moving and I just have this awful feeling that some of the idiots in the system still operate this way... BELIEVE me.. I pray I'm wrong.... Take care Ginger... and oh BTW.. love the candy and flowers... You def have a WONdERFUL best friend... great best friend. Take good care!! Thinking about you!!
    Leigh

     

  • At 8:15 PM, Blogger Melissa said…

    Ginger,

    I too am sorry this is happening to you and Maya. Do you have any advice for those of us who are not as far in the process as you? How can I avoid people like that? I am praying for you and Maya.

     

  • At 4:06 AM, Blogger Sig said…

    Keep the faith, my friend. Now that this person is "OUT"ed, things will happen. What a shame...just horrible.

     

  • At 5:42 AM, Blogger Tricia said…

    Nooooooo, Ginger. That is BEYOND frustrating - it is MADDENING!!!!!! I HATE that you have lost 6 weeks. What a nightmare!

    I will give you AND MAYA a huge hug at the Westin! Keep focused on your visit trip!

     

  • At 6:04 AM, Blogger kate said…

    This is INSANE!! I hope your agency is right and Monday morning brings better news.

     

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